🇫🇷 Lesson 5: Family & Personal Descriptions

🎯 What You'll Learn

Talk about your family members, describe people's appearance and personality, and master the essentials of adjective agreement — one of the core grammar concepts in French.

Estimated Time: 45–55 minutes

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Members (La Famille)

French (masculine)French (feminine)English
le pèrela mèrefather / mother
le papala mamandad / mom
le filsla filleson / daughter
le frèrela sœurbrother / sister
le grand-pèrela grand-mèregrandfather / grandmother
l'onclela tanteuncle / aunt
le cousinla cousinecousin (m/f)
le neveula niècenephew / niece
le petit-filsla petite-fillegrandson / granddaughter
le mari / l'ĂŠpouxla femme / l'ĂŠpousehusband / wife
le copain / le petit amila copine / la petite amieboyfriend / girlfriend
le beau-pèrela belle-mèrefather-in-law / stepfather ¡ mother-in-law / stepmother
le beau-frèrela belle-sœurbrother-in-law / sister-in-law

🇫🇷 France

Boyfriend/girlfriend: petit ami / petite amie or copain / copine (casual). Copain/copine can also just mean "friend" — context matters. Partner: compagnon / compagne or conjoint(e).

🇨🇦 Canada

Boyfriend/girlfriend: chum / blonde — this is uniquely Québécois! "Mon chum" = my boyfriend, "ma blonde" = my girlfriend (regardless of hair color). Copain/copine is understood but sounds more European.

⚠️ "Belle-mère" Double Meaning

Belle-mère means both "mother-in-law" AND "stepmother." Same for beau-père (father-in-law / stepfather). Context makes it clear, but if you need to be specific, you can say ma mère par alliance (my mother by marriage) vs la nouvelle femme de mon père (my father's new wife).

🗣️ Talking About Family

Key structures for describing your family:

J'ai deux frères et une sœur. (I have two brothers and one sister.)

Je suis fils/fille unique. (I'm an only child.)

Ma mère s'appelle Marie. (My mother's name is Marie.)

Mon frère a 25 ans. (My brother is 25 years old.)

Mes parents habitent Ă  Lyon. (My parents live in Lyon.)

Je suis mariĂŠ(e) / cĂŠlibataire / divorcĂŠ(e). (I'm married / single / divorced.)

Possessive Adjectives

Masculine SingularFeminine SingularPlural (m & f)
mymonmames
your (tu)tontates
his/her/itssonsases
ournotrenotrenos
your (vous)votrevotrevos
theirleurleurleurs

💡 Important: "Son/Sa" Matches the Noun, Not the Owner

Unlike English, French possessives agree with the thing possessed, not the person who possesses it. A man talking about his mother says "sa mère" (feminine, because mère is feminine). A woman talking about her father says "son père" (masculine, because père is masculine). Also: before a feminine noun starting with a vowel, use mon/ton/son instead of ma/ta/sa: mon amie (not ma amie).

👤 Describing Appearance (L'Apparence Physique)

Hair (Les Cheveux)

FrenchEnglish
les cheveux blondsblond hair
les cheveux brunsbrown hair
les cheveux noirsblack hair
les cheveux rouxred hair
les cheveux gris / blancsgray / white hair
les cheveux courts / longsshort / long hair
les cheveux bouclĂŠs / frisĂŠscurly hair
les cheveux raides / lissesstraight hair
chauvebald

Structure: Il/Elle a les cheveux + color + type.
Elle a les cheveux longs et bruns. (She has long brown hair.)
Il a les cheveux courts et bouclĂŠs. (He has short curly hair.)

Eyes (Les Yeux)

FrenchEnglish
les yeux bleusblue eyes
les yeux vertsgreen eyes
les yeux marronbrown eyes
les yeux noisettehazel eyes
les yeux noirsdark/black eyes
les yeux grisgray eyes

✅ "Marron" Never Changes

Most colors agree with the noun (bleu/bleue/bleus/bleues), but marron (brown — for eyes) and orange are invariable — they never change form. Les yeux marron (not marrons).

General Appearance

French (m / f)English
grand / grandetall
petit / petiteshort
minceslim / thin
costaud / costaudestocky / sturdy
fort / fortestrong / big (body)
beau / bellehandsome / beautiful
joli / joliepretty
jeuneyoung
âgÊ / âgÊeelderly
Il/Elle porte des lunettesHe/She wears glasses
Il a une barbe / une moustacheHe has a beard / mustache

😊 Personality & Character

French (m / f)EnglishFrench (m / f)English
gentil / gentillekind / nicemĂŠchant / mĂŠchantemean
sympa(thique)friendly / likableantipathiqueunfriendly
drĂ´lefunnysĂŠrieux / sĂŠrieuseserious
intelligent / intelligentesmartbĂŞtestupid (casual)
courageux / courageusebravetimideshy
travailleur / travailleusehardworkingparesseux / paresseuselazy
gĂŠnĂŠreux / gĂŠnĂŠreusegenerousavare / radin(e)stingy
calmecalmnerveux / nerveusenervous
optimisteoptimisticpessimistepessimistic
patient / patientepatientimpatient / impatienteimpatient

📐 Adjective Agreement — The Core Rule

In French, adjectives must agree in gender (masculine/feminine) and number (singular/plural) with the noun they describe.

Default PatternMasculine SingularFeminine SingularMasculine PluralFeminine Plural
Add -e for femininepetitpetitepetitspetites
-eux → -euseheureuxheureuseheureuxheureuses
-er → -èrepremierpremièrepremierspremières
-f → -vesportifsportivesportifssportives
-el → -ellecruelcruellecruelscruelles
Invariable (ends in -e)sympasympasympassympas

⚠️ Irregular Stars: Beau, Nouveau, Vieux

These three common adjectives have special forms:

beau (beautiful): beau → bel (before vowel) → belle (f) → beaux (m pl) → belles (f pl)

nouveau (new): nouveau → nouvel → nouvelle → nouveaux → nouvelles

vieux (old): vieux → vieil → vieille → vieux → vieilles

The special "bel/nouvel/vieil" form is used before masculine nouns starting with a vowel: un bel homme, un vieil ami.

📍 Adjective Placement

Most French adjectives go after the noun (unlike English):

un chat noir — a black cat (not "un noir chat")

une femme intelligente — an intelligent woman

un film intéressant — an interesting movie

But some very common adjectives go before the noun (remember BANGS):

💡 BANGS: Adjectives That Go Before the Noun

Beauty: beau, joli
Age: jeune, vieux, nouveau
Number: premier, deuxième, dernier
Goodness: bon, mauvais, gentil
Size: grand, petit, gros, long

un petit chat (a small cat) ¡ une belle maison (a beautiful house) ¡ un bon repas (a good meal)

📝 Quiz: Test Your Knowledge

1. How do you say "my mother" in French?

2. In QuĂŠbĂŠcois French, how do you say "my girlfriend"?

3. Where does the adjective go in "a tall man"?

4. What is the feminine form of "sportif"?

📚 Key Takeaways

📌 Lesson Summary

✦ French family vocabulary distinguishes masculine/feminine for every relation.

✦ In Québec, "chum" = boyfriend and "blonde" = girlfriend — unique to Canadian French.

✦ Possessive adjectives (mon/ma/mes) agree with the thing possessed, not the owner.

✦ Adjectives agree in gender and number: add -e for feminine, -s for plural.

✦ Most adjectives go AFTER the noun — except BANGS (Beauty, Age, Number, Goodness, Size).

✦ Beau, nouveau, vieux have special forms before vowels: bel, nouvel, vieil.